It’s a very special crossover episode! Jaclyn Friedman, host of the podcast Unscrewed, talks sexual wellness with us, while Deanna visits Jaclyn on Unscrewed this week to talk about sexual harassment (be sure to check that out!). We discuss sexual assault on campus, how being assaulted changed Jaclyn’s worldview, the analogy of the broken stair, and how we should shift our mindset from sex being a commodity to sex as creative/collaborative interaction. (Rowr.) Also, why you’d never force B.B. King to jam (not just because he’s dead) and how even a sexpert makes mistakes (sexually). Deanna slips “vis à vis” into the conversation real natural-like, and everyone tries to avoid using the word “journey” and fails utterly.
LINKITY-LINK LINKS
Deanna on Jaclyn’s podcast, “Unscrewed:” http://www.theestablishment.co/2016/04/12/unscrewed-podcast-fun-for-whom/
#SuckItChopra: https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10153396282481176&set=pb.550566175.-2207520000.1460595118.&type=3&theater
All Jaclyn, all the time:
http://www.jaclynfriedman.com/
Title IX and sexual assault:
https://www.aclu.org/know-your-rights/title-ix-and-sexual-assault
The Hunting Ground:
http://www.thehuntinggroundfilm.com/
Jen Sorensen’s comic:
http://fusion.net/story/60581/the-phone-rang-it-was-my-college-rapist/
The missing stair:
http://pervocracy.blogspot.com/2012/06/missing-stair.html
Thomas MacAulay Millar:
https://yesmeansyesblog.wordpress.com/author/thomasmacaulaymillar/
George Carlin’s driving bit (which I got wrong, it’s idiot/maniac):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XWPCE2tTLZQ
IMPACT Self-defense:
http://www.impactselfdefense.org/
Alice’s post on her dreams:
http://www.alicebradley.net/blog/2016/3/4/nothing-to-see-here
That episode with Paul Gilmartin:
https://leagueofawkwardunicorns.com/post/140763951954/episode-8-abuses-and-whatnot-with-paul
Robot Hugs’ “Perfect Victim”
http://www.robot-hugs.com/perfect-victim/
How not to get raped:
http://blog.iblamethepatriarchy.com/2009/12/06/i-got-yer-rape-prevention-email-forward-right-here/
Jaclyn on enthusiastic consent:
http://amplifyyourvoice.org/u/Yes_Means_Yes/2010/11/9/Consent-Is-Not-A-Lightswitch/
Books for people recovering from sexual trauma:
http://www.amazon.com/The-Courage-Heal-Survivors-Anniversary/dp/0061284335
http://www.amazon.com/The-Survivors-Guide-Sex-Empowered/dp/1573440795
http://www.amazon.com/What-You-Really-Want-Shame-Free/dp/1580053440
MUSIC
Intro! Outro! It’s everything!
Shame Spiral by Tacocat
Riding with the King by B.B. King & Eric Clapton
